"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I feel so lost.

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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wjh said:
I don't think you want to change at all.

I think you're too scared.

Grow a pair and then come back.
That's retarded. Why would I be asking for help and looking into things for my social anxiety if I didn't want to change. I am scared, but I keep telling myself I have nothing to lose....which is exactly the truth. Nothing can be worse than it is right now.

Thanks Vypros for all the info. I'm definitely going to start doing this. I can't stand being lonely anymore and pretending I'm somebody else.

I really am still interested in a HTML version of the bible please...if somebody could help me find it. This is the only thing I've found...is this the bible? Please someone tell me?

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/DJBC/djbc.htm#_Toc121381255

If it's not, can someone please point me in the direction to find an HTML version of it? Also the Book of Pook as suggested by Vypros?
 

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OneEyedJack said:
Step 1: Forget about girls
Step 2: Find your interests and focus on them.

Yeah. But how do you forget about girls when you're in your 20's and still never had sex? You can't go anywhere or do anything without seeing women everywhere. The longer a man goes without sex, the more bitter and angry he's going to get.
 

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There is noting in a girl.
you are just wasting your time and enery in this course.

Focus on other thing and keep buzy yourself is the best solution of this problem.
 
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