"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I feel so lost.

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bronco

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wjh said:
I don't think you want to change at all.

I think you're too scared.

Grow a pair and then come back.
That's retarded. Why would I be asking for help and looking into things for my social anxiety if I didn't want to change. I am scared, but I keep telling myself I have nothing to lose....which is exactly the truth. Nothing can be worse than it is right now.

Thanks Vypros for all the info. I'm definitely going to start doing this. I can't stand being lonely anymore and pretending I'm somebody else.

I really am still interested in a HTML version of the bible please...if somebody could help me find it. This is the only thing I've found...is this the bible? Please someone tell me?

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/DJBC/djbc.htm#_Toc121381255

If it's not, can someone please point me in the direction to find an HTML version of it? Also the Book of Pook as suggested by Vypros?
 

knglerxt

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OneEyedJack said:
Step 1: Forget about girls
Step 2: Find your interests and focus on them.

Yeah. But how do you forget about girls when you're in your 20's and still never had sex? You can't go anywhere or do anything without seeing women everywhere. The longer a man goes without sex, the more bitter and angry he's going to get.
 

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There is noting in a girl.
you are just wasting your time and enery in this course.

Focus on other thing and keep buzy yourself is the best solution of this problem.
 
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