"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I feel so lost.

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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wjh said:
I don't think you want to change at all.

I think you're too scared.

Grow a pair and then come back.
That's retarded. Why would I be asking for help and looking into things for my social anxiety if I didn't want to change. I am scared, but I keep telling myself I have nothing to lose....which is exactly the truth. Nothing can be worse than it is right now.

Thanks Vypros for all the info. I'm definitely going to start doing this. I can't stand being lonely anymore and pretending I'm somebody else.

I really am still interested in a HTML version of the bible please...if somebody could help me find it. This is the only thing I've found...is this the bible? Please someone tell me?

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/DJBC/djbc.htm#_Toc121381255

If it's not, can someone please point me in the direction to find an HTML version of it? Also the Book of Pook as suggested by Vypros?
 

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OneEyedJack said:
Step 1: Forget about girls
Step 2: Find your interests and focus on them.

Yeah. But how do you forget about girls when you're in your 20's and still never had sex? You can't go anywhere or do anything without seeing women everywhere. The longer a man goes without sex, the more bitter and angry he's going to get.
 

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There is noting in a girl.
you are just wasting your time and enery in this course.

Focus on other thing and keep buzy yourself is the best solution of this problem.
 
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