"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I "dated" this girl.
But i love being with her family.
But she can be a ball buster and I'm like...no no.
That's violence and you wouldn't take it from me.

So she doesn't flirt....just is i guess a guys girl.... accidentally texts me and says
O that's for my other friend.

I never heard of this other friend but ok.

I get along great with the rest of the family.

I feel bad because, maybe that's her style....but it's not working on me.

And I'm going to have to leave the family altogether.
And i like showing up to Sundays lasagna. With a bottle of wine
:-(
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Seriously.....I'm in another state...no friends.
It sucks.


Well make friends...yes I'm trying but they all married.
Joined a league...they're all 18

Start a class in college is my next step
 
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Is it wrong i fell in love with her whole family....but she's a bytch
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Uncle's like me... nephews, we play soccer....we even go out to restaurant together....
Except she's a bytch
 
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F u moderator

This is real life in another country


Stay in your line.
Your advice probably won't mean anything.
Try translating in three idiomas


Idiot
 
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