"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I feel morose

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I "dated" this girl.
But i love being with her family.
But she can be a ball buster and I'm like...no no.
That's violence and you wouldn't take it from me.

So she doesn't flirt....just is i guess a guys girl.... accidentally texts me and says
O that's for my other friend.

I never heard of this other friend but ok.

I get along great with the rest of the family.

I feel bad because, maybe that's her style....but it's not working on me.

And I'm going to have to leave the family altogether.
And i like showing up to Sundays lasagna. With a bottle of wine
:-(
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Seriously.....I'm in another state...no friends.
It sucks.


Well make friends...yes I'm trying but they all married.
Joined a league...they're all 18

Start a class in college is my next step
 

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Is it wrong i fell in love with her whole family....but she's a bytch
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Uncle's like me... nephews, we play soccer....we even go out to restaurant together....
Except she's a bytch
 

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F u moderator

This is real life in another country


Stay in your line.
Your advice probably won't mean anything.
Try translating in three idiomas


Idiot
 
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