"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I feel like im getting no where with girls

R1ch4rd

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When i was a chubby AFC i had 3 girls what i missed out on getting. Now i'm like semi suave i've had 1/2 so far not work out. Maybe I'm jsut not patient. But I'm 16, my teenage life started at 15(social life etc before i just sat indoors ate and play games)
So being a virgin and failing with 6 girls common. Or can i just be doing something wrong(i agree i made a few bad mistakes) i don't want to analyze but i seem drawn to it because of why arent i with these girls.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You're 16 dude.. Focus on homework and enjoying time with your friends.. Have a good GPA, go to a good college, and hook up with tons of hott women.. Seriously though at 16 I remember being stressed too, but everything will come together for ya bud.. Patience! Just learn all you can now.. Later brother
 

R1ch4rd

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Yeah that's what im thinking. My exams are over. But im a good looking guy, funny, tall, strong build, smart, can be fairly charming and manly(now)lost alot of weight still a bit podgy but i've joined the gym.

Just had a girl who obviously liked me now lies that she didn't like me as much as these other boy. But i know that i am learning it all now.
But i see my friends and ugly kids, fat kids, un funny kids, boring kids, skinny kids, rude kids, stupid kids all have had more success with women than me.
It's just nautral to me to think what do I have to do? is it just purely time? or am I lacking stuff badly.
 

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Dont stress, seriously dont. At your age just KEEP LEARNING, trust me tons of girls will swim by you now and in future, but you'll only catch them if you know what to do and what not to do. If there a girl that you want but cant get your hands on dont worry. you'll meet another that will make her look like snoopy.
 
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