"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I feel like im getting no where with girls

R1ch4rd

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When i was a chubby AFC i had 3 girls what i missed out on getting. Now i'm like semi suave i've had 1/2 so far not work out. Maybe I'm jsut not patient. But I'm 16, my teenage life started at 15(social life etc before i just sat indoors ate and play games)
So being a virgin and failing with 6 girls common. Or can i just be doing something wrong(i agree i made a few bad mistakes) i don't want to analyze but i seem drawn to it because of why arent i with these girls.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You're 16 dude.. Focus on homework and enjoying time with your friends.. Have a good GPA, go to a good college, and hook up with tons of hott women.. Seriously though at 16 I remember being stressed too, but everything will come together for ya bud.. Patience! Just learn all you can now.. Later brother
 

R1ch4rd

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Yeah that's what im thinking. My exams are over. But im a good looking guy, funny, tall, strong build, smart, can be fairly charming and manly(now)lost alot of weight still a bit podgy but i've joined the gym.

Just had a girl who obviously liked me now lies that she didn't like me as much as these other boy. But i know that i am learning it all now.
But i see my friends and ugly kids, fat kids, un funny kids, boring kids, skinny kids, rude kids, stupid kids all have had more success with women than me.
It's just nautral to me to think what do I have to do? is it just purely time? or am I lacking stuff badly.
 

Boyfriend

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Dont stress, seriously dont. At your age just KEEP LEARNING, trust me tons of girls will swim by you now and in future, but you'll only catch them if you know what to do and what not to do. If there a girl that you want but cant get your hands on dont worry. you'll meet another that will make her look like snoopy.
 
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