"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I feel like im getting no where with girls

R1ch4rd

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When i was a chubby AFC i had 3 girls what i missed out on getting. Now i'm like semi suave i've had 1/2 so far not work out. Maybe I'm jsut not patient. But I'm 16, my teenage life started at 15(social life etc before i just sat indoors ate and play games)
So being a virgin and failing with 6 girls common. Or can i just be doing something wrong(i agree i made a few bad mistakes) i don't want to analyze but i seem drawn to it because of why arent i with these girls.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You're 16 dude.. Focus on homework and enjoying time with your friends.. Have a good GPA, go to a good college, and hook up with tons of hott women.. Seriously though at 16 I remember being stressed too, but everything will come together for ya bud.. Patience! Just learn all you can now.. Later brother
 

R1ch4rd

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Yeah that's what im thinking. My exams are over. But im a good looking guy, funny, tall, strong build, smart, can be fairly charming and manly(now)lost alot of weight still a bit podgy but i've joined the gym.

Just had a girl who obviously liked me now lies that she didn't like me as much as these other boy. But i know that i am learning it all now.
But i see my friends and ugly kids, fat kids, un funny kids, boring kids, skinny kids, rude kids, stupid kids all have had more success with women than me.
It's just nautral to me to think what do I have to do? is it just purely time? or am I lacking stuff badly.
 

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Dont stress, seriously dont. At your age just KEEP LEARNING, trust me tons of girls will swim by you now and in future, but you'll only catch them if you know what to do and what not to do. If there a girl that you want but cant get your hands on dont worry. you'll meet another that will make her look like snoopy.
 
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