"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

I feel I'm ahead of my time, family and peers...advice?

TheManMasenko

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Feb 2, 2022
Messages
264
Reaction score
193
Age
25
Hello Sosuave brothers/sisters,

I feel like I'm ahead of my time, family and peers (friends/associates). By that, I mean I'm above their mentality and maturity. Indeed at such a rate, I feel they're not able to comprehend/act the way I do.

Little stuff as ownership, which they do not own up to their wrongs. Or even things like talking to women, which some claim they want a relationship but do not act towards it. I don't care about their lack of, I just feel like I'm surrounded by too much passiveness. I even have some friends who just want to smoke/drink/hangout with little to no care of their future.

Still, I'm at the same spot as some peers and even further behind others.

The reason I say I'm behind is because I changed my major causing me to stay in school longer than expected.

But despite that, I make more money than them since I own a small business. I don't have the time to grind as I want due to school, but I know my potential is massive. Unfortunately, I feel the classes are withholding me, but at the same time, the degree (in the medical field) is a good safe haven.

All I'm saying, my potential is great, my maturity is further and I have big goals. At the same time, I'm surrounded by passiveness and averageness, which is something I DO NOT want to strive for.

I feel I'm ahead of the curve mentally, but not physically...besides putting in the extra hours. Any advice? I want to conquer. I want respect as a leader for my achievements. I don't want to be a ****ing average cuck.

Please tell me anything. I'm listening.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

eli77

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 7, 2013
Messages
2,706
Reaction score
595
Location
Miami fl
I've been there I do a lot of reading and I do mean a lot of reading and I try to network with guys on this side or guys I know real life who are into the red pill blue pill philosophy that didn't marry the first piece of bath that came their way it's all about who you hang around with in the end.
 

Cerwin Vega

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 29, 2014
Messages
639
Reaction score
125
Location
EU
Always know there's someone better and ahead of you. Try to socialize with people above you, who can teach you a thing or two
 

MatureDJ

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 30, 2006
Messages
12,738
Reaction score
5,156
Hello Sosuave brothers/sisters,

I feel like I'm ahead of my time, family and peers (friends/associates). By that, I mean I'm above their mentality and maturity. Indeed at such a rate, I feel they're not able to comprehend/act the way I do.

Little stuff as ownership, which they do not own up to their wrongs. Or even things like talking to women, which some claim they want a relationship but do not act towards it. I don't care about their lack of, I just feel like I'm surrounded by too much passiveness. I even have some friends who just want to smoke/drink/hangout with little to no care of their future.

Still, I'm at the same spot as some peers and even further behind others.

The reason I say I'm behind is because I changed my major causing me to stay in school longer than expected.

But despite that, I make more money than them since I own a small business. I don't have the time to grind as I want due to school, but I know my potential is massive. Unfortunately, I feel the classes are withholding me, but at the same time, the degree (in the medical field) is a good safe haven.

All I'm saying, my potential is great, my maturity is further and I have big goals. At the same time, I'm surrounded by passiveness and averageness, which is something I DO NOT want to strive for.

I feel I'm ahead of the curve mentally, but not physically...besides putting in the extra hours. Any advice? I want to conquer. I want respect as a leader for my achievements. I don't want to be a ****ing average cuck.

Please tell me anything. I'm listening.
 

BackInTheGame78

Moderator
Joined
Sep 10, 2014
Messages
16,983
Reaction score
19,317
From experience I can tell you it's a dangerous mindset to think you are better than everyone else. Far better to stay humble and grounded and work on continually improving yourself without comparing yourself to others.

You might make yourself feel good by doing that but you will live a lonely existence and people will tire of being around you.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Bokanovsky

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 7, 2012
Messages
5,520
Reaction score
5,699
All I'm saying, my potential is great, my maturity is further and I have big goals. At the same time, I'm surrounded by passiveness and averageness, which is something I DO NOT want to strive for.

I feel I'm ahead of the curve mentally, but not physically...besides putting in the extra hours. Any advice? I want to conquer. I want respect as a leader for my achievements. I don't want to be a ****ing average cuck.

Please tell me anything. I'm listening.
Potential and goals mean nothing until you realize them. In sports, you don't get points for your "potential" to score a goal. You get points for actually doing it. The same applies to other aspects of life. There is no shortage of people who think they have great potential but never amount to anything. Come back when you're ready to tell us about your accomplishments.
 
Top