LandingWood
Don Juan
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
i feel bad
- Thread starter LandingWood
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Night-hawk
Master Don Juan
Don't.
Think...
Another soon to be red pill as****** in the making.
Thanks for taking our training wheels off girls. Now don't complain, deary, that there are no good guys for your entitled ****ness to bask under, when guys like him are getting the hint and eventually start riding your fellow sisters hard and flipping them off even harder.
Think...
Another soon to be red pill as****** in the making.
Thanks for taking our training wheels off girls. Now don't complain, deary, that there are no good guys for your entitled ****ness to bask under, when guys like him are getting the hint and eventually start riding your fellow sisters hard and flipping them off even harder.
mustfirstregister
Master Don Juan
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well, at least he got a handshake closed.
wakingdream
New Member
Every man alive knows that feeling...
What's the big deal? Two people went on a date. She didn't like him and turned down his advances. I guess it's okay when a guy turns down a girl but when a girl does it, she's a ***** and a terrible person. Going on a date doesn't guarantee you anything. I've gone on dates before and the girl didn't want to pursue anything after that. Tough sh*t. On to the next girl. Only wussies get all hung up over one girl and feel friend zoned. I can tell her already developed oneitis for that girl just watching that video. Poor blue pill. He needs to grow some balls.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
The brutal nature of reality. This is like watching a cute gazelle get destroyed by a cheetah on the Serengeti. That's how it goes.
This vid should be stickied.
This vid should be stickied.
Night-hawk
Master Don Juan
It's common that, like above scenario, be that oneitis or disappointment of an unfavorable encounter that some guys (depending on severity of oneitis) will cry it off, or sulk it off, or beat the bad feelings and self esteem with a stick of self loathing. Where other guys will simply brush it off, laugh it off and make little of it.
Some guys will eventually get fed up, and use such experiences to finally bridge that gap.
Some guys will eventually get fed up, and use such experiences to finally bridge that gap.
Albatross953
Master Don Juan
Would have been funny if he looked up at the camera at the end and done the finger gun to the head....cause that's how he felt.