LandingWood
Don Juan
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
i feel bad
- Thread starter LandingWood
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Night-hawk
Master Don Juan
Don't.
Think...
Another soon to be red pill as****** in the making.
Thanks for taking our training wheels off girls. Now don't complain, deary, that there are no good guys for your entitled ****ness to bask under, when guys like him are getting the hint and eventually start riding your fellow sisters hard and flipping them off even harder.
Think...
Another soon to be red pill as****** in the making.
Thanks for taking our training wheels off girls. Now don't complain, deary, that there are no good guys for your entitled ****ness to bask under, when guys like him are getting the hint and eventually start riding your fellow sisters hard and flipping them off even harder.
mustfirstregister
Master Don Juan
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well, at least he got a handshake closed.
wakingdream
New Member
Every man alive knows that feeling...
What's the big deal? Two people went on a date. She didn't like him and turned down his advances. I guess it's okay when a guy turns down a girl but when a girl does it, she's a ***** and a terrible person. Going on a date doesn't guarantee you anything. I've gone on dates before and the girl didn't want to pursue anything after that. Tough sh*t. On to the next girl. Only wussies get all hung up over one girl and feel friend zoned. I can tell her already developed oneitis for that girl just watching that video. Poor blue pill. He needs to grow some balls.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
The brutal nature of reality. This is like watching a cute gazelle get destroyed by a cheetah on the Serengeti. That's how it goes.
This vid should be stickied.
This vid should be stickied.
Night-hawk
Master Don Juan
It's common that, like above scenario, be that oneitis or disappointment of an unfavorable encounter that some guys (depending on severity of oneitis) will cry it off, or sulk it off, or beat the bad feelings and self esteem with a stick of self loathing. Where other guys will simply brush it off, laugh it off and make little of it.
Some guys will eventually get fed up, and use such experiences to finally bridge that gap.
Some guys will eventually get fed up, and use such experiences to finally bridge that gap.
Albatross953
Master Don Juan
Would have been funny if he looked up at the camera at the end and done the finger gun to the head....cause that's how he felt.