"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i feel bad

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Night-hawk

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Don't.

Think...

Another soon to be red pill as****** in the making.

Thanks for taking our training wheels off girls. Now don't complain, deary, that there are no good guys for your entitled ****ness to bask under, when guys like him are getting the hint and eventually start riding your fellow sisters hard and flipping them off even harder.
 

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What's the big deal? Two people went on a date. She didn't like him and turned down his advances. I guess it's okay when a guy turns down a girl but when a girl does it, she's a ***** and a terrible person. Going on a date doesn't guarantee you anything. I've gone on dates before and the girl didn't want to pursue anything after that. Tough sh*t. On to the next girl. Only wussies get all hung up over one girl and feel friend zoned. I can tell her already developed oneitis for that girl just watching that video. Poor blue pill. He needs to grow some balls.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

VladPatton

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The brutal nature of reality. This is like watching a cute gazelle get destroyed by a cheetah on the Serengeti. That's how it goes.

This vid should be stickied.
 

Night-hawk

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It's common that, like above scenario, be that oneitis or disappointment of an unfavorable encounter that some guys (depending on severity of oneitis) will cry it off, or sulk it off, or beat the bad feelings and self esteem with a stick of self loathing. Where other guys will simply brush it off, laugh it off and make little of it.

Some guys will eventually get fed up, and use such experiences to finally bridge that gap.
 

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Would have been funny if he looked up at the camera at the end and done the finger gun to the head....cause that's how he felt.
 
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