"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I feel bad

S.Y.L

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Ok, so at my friends party last night, we were all pretty drunk, I was grinding on a dance floor with one of my friends cousins, who is visiting from germany. Basically, I follow her into a room, and lay beside her, she starts making out with me, and I think (not sure) that I fingered her, and she was all over me, and me, being drunk, went along with it.


For some reason, I don't know, I feel bad for doing so, although its probably just the inner beta in me coming out. I didn't do anything bad did I?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Deryk

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that depends what you compare the word wrong to... by gods standards yes your a sinner but per-say by your standards it could be ok....

What do you want to compare wrong to.... wrong to what your friend might think.... then yeah wrong

but no... basically outta sight outta mind
 

eaglez1177

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Its the inner beta coming out in you. Get rid of it.

And NO, of course not, you did not do anything wrong at all. So what if it was your friends cousin...she was coming on to you, you were both drunk, and you just went along with it. You really didnt do anything wrong. If you feel that your friend may get pissed that you possibly fingered his cousin, then I would obviously keep this whole thing on the down low.

If your friend gives you sh*t, just be honest with him and tell him what happened, but def leave out the part about fingering her lol.

Too bad you cant remember all of it completely lol, you must've been really drunk. I've been in the same situation as you before...my friends told me that I once got head from this ugly chick in my friend's basement. Unfortunately, I was so hammered that I have absolutely no recollection of that ever happening, and apparently from what they girl told me, I passed out while she was giving me head lol.
 

S.Y.L

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Well my friends a chick, if that changes anything lol. And yeah I remember like 80% of it, just missing out a few details. And I'm not religious at all, so I could not care about that lol.
 

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Hahaha, I don't think cousin matters but I haven't seen a cousin since I was like 7 so that might just be my personal bias.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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S.Y.L

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Lol, maybe, I couldn't say. I wouldn't be to pissed off if one of my friends did it with my cousin lol. Who knows.
 
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