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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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Ok, so at my friends party last night, we were all pretty drunk, I was grinding on a dance floor with one of my friends cousins, who is visiting from germany. Basically, I follow her into a room, and lay beside her, she starts making out with me, and I think (not sure) that I fingered her, and she was all over me, and me, being drunk, went along with it.


For some reason, I don't know, I feel bad for doing so, although its probably just the inner beta in me coming out. I didn't do anything bad did I?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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that depends what you compare the word wrong to... by gods standards yes your a sinner but per-say by your standards it could be ok....

What do you want to compare wrong to.... wrong to what your friend might think.... then yeah wrong

but no... basically outta sight outta mind
 
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Its the inner beta coming out in you. Get rid of it.

And NO, of course not, you did not do anything wrong at all. So what if it was your friends cousin...she was coming on to you, you were both drunk, and you just went along with it. You really didnt do anything wrong. If you feel that your friend may get pissed that you possibly fingered his cousin, then I would obviously keep this whole thing on the down low.

If your friend gives you sh*t, just be honest with him and tell him what happened, but def leave out the part about fingering her lol.

Too bad you cant remember all of it completely lol, you must've been really drunk. I've been in the same situation as you before...my friends told me that I once got head from this ugly chick in my friend's basement. Unfortunately, I was so hammered that I have absolutely no recollection of that ever happening, and apparently from what they girl told me, I passed out while she was giving me head lol.
 
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Well my friends a chick, if that changes anything lol. And yeah I remember like 80% of it, just missing out a few details. And I'm not religious at all, so I could not care about that lol.
 
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Hahaha, I don't think cousin matters but I haven't seen a cousin since I was like 7 so that might just be my personal bias.
 

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Lol, maybe, I couldn't say. I wouldn't be to pissed off if one of my friends did it with my cousin lol. Who knows.
 
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