"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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S.Y.L

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Ok, so at my friends party last night, we were all pretty drunk, I was grinding on a dance floor with one of my friends cousins, who is visiting from germany. Basically, I follow her into a room, and lay beside her, she starts making out with me, and I think (not sure) that I fingered her, and she was all over me, and me, being drunk, went along with it.


For some reason, I don't know, I feel bad for doing so, although its probably just the inner beta in me coming out. I didn't do anything bad did I?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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that depends what you compare the word wrong to... by gods standards yes your a sinner but per-say by your standards it could be ok....

What do you want to compare wrong to.... wrong to what your friend might think.... then yeah wrong

but no... basically outta sight outta mind
 
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Its the inner beta coming out in you. Get rid of it.

And NO, of course not, you did not do anything wrong at all. So what if it was your friends cousin...she was coming on to you, you were both drunk, and you just went along with it. You really didnt do anything wrong. If you feel that your friend may get pissed that you possibly fingered his cousin, then I would obviously keep this whole thing on the down low.

If your friend gives you sh*t, just be honest with him and tell him what happened, but def leave out the part about fingering her lol.

Too bad you cant remember all of it completely lol, you must've been really drunk. I've been in the same situation as you before...my friends told me that I once got head from this ugly chick in my friend's basement. Unfortunately, I was so hammered that I have absolutely no recollection of that ever happening, and apparently from what they girl told me, I passed out while she was giving me head lol.
 
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Well my friends a chick, if that changes anything lol. And yeah I remember like 80% of it, just missing out a few details. And I'm not religious at all, so I could not care about that lol.
 
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Hahaha, I don't think cousin matters but I haven't seen a cousin since I was like 7 so that might just be my personal bias.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Lol, maybe, I couldn't say. I wouldn't be to pissed off if one of my friends did it with my cousin lol. Who knows.
 
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