"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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I feel as if i'm a different man..

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i feel as though i am not at all content with the way i'm going through this DJ thing.

ive gone from 0 dates to going out with 5 girls at a time.. But I feel like im a different man.. I dont know if it's good or bad..

I feel I have improved.. But I dont know exactly if it is for the better.

I feel like I am not myself when I am with these girls, I feel that I know these girls like me now..

But I feel as if who I am is: A shy, nice, gentleman.. As opposed to what I am now, Is practically the opposite of what I used to be.

I like who I am now, but I am not sure if I am who I am supposed to be.. I dunno im jsut confused
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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you are still yourself, you have just progressed. 10 years from now, you will be completly different again.
 

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Or maybe you're both and you've just never let this side of you come out before, and it's so foreign to you you feel that it oughta be repressed, but it's there nonetheless.

Just because you're familiar with being Bruce Wayne doesn't mean the Batman side of you isn't there. You just choose to deny it, which is great in most social situations, but unhealthy for your personal psyche. To be balanced, to be ALL of the person you can be, you have to learn to be BOTH at once.
 

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Originally posted by squirrels
Or maybe you're both and you've just never let this side of you come out before, and it's so foreign to you you feel that it oughta be repressed, but it's there nonetheless.

Just because you're familiar with being Bruce Wayne doesn't mean the Batman side of you isn't there. You just choose to deny it, which is great in most social situations, but unhealthy for your personal psyche. To be balanced, to be ALL of the person you can be, you have to learn to be BOTH at once.
Wow.. Looks like you were in my position or something once..
 
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