"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I feel as if i'm a different man..

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i feel as though i am not at all content with the way i'm going through this DJ thing.

ive gone from 0 dates to going out with 5 girls at a time.. But I feel like im a different man.. I dont know if it's good or bad..

I feel I have improved.. But I dont know exactly if it is for the better.

I feel like I am not myself when I am with these girls, I feel that I know these girls like me now..

But I feel as if who I am is: A shy, nice, gentleman.. As opposed to what I am now, Is practically the opposite of what I used to be.

I like who I am now, but I am not sure if I am who I am supposed to be.. I dunno im jsut confused
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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you are still yourself, you have just progressed. 10 years from now, you will be completly different again.
 

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Or maybe you're both and you've just never let this side of you come out before, and it's so foreign to you you feel that it oughta be repressed, but it's there nonetheless.

Just because you're familiar with being Bruce Wayne doesn't mean the Batman side of you isn't there. You just choose to deny it, which is great in most social situations, but unhealthy for your personal psyche. To be balanced, to be ALL of the person you can be, you have to learn to be BOTH at once.
 

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Originally posted by squirrels
Or maybe you're both and you've just never let this side of you come out before, and it's so foreign to you you feel that it oughta be repressed, but it's there nonetheless.

Just because you're familiar with being Bruce Wayne doesn't mean the Batman side of you isn't there. You just choose to deny it, which is great in most social situations, but unhealthy for your personal psyche. To be balanced, to be ALL of the person you can be, you have to learn to be BOTH at once.
Wow.. Looks like you were in my position or something once..
 
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