"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I cant explain in great detail because I dont remember last night very well. I was completely wasted. Anyways I've been dating this girl for a while and last night I got completely drunk. I wasn't hanging out with her last night but I ended up seeing her at a club. I dont have time to describe the whole night but I know i displayed some signs of beeing needy. I also think that she saw me making out with another girl. How would you guys go about handeling this.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Directly or Not at All
 
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Which one? Not really sure if she saw me making out with another girl. I was at the other end of the bar making out with this girl and when I left i saw her sitting at the end of the bar. She was acting a little different towards me all night. I was trying to get her to go home with me but she wasn't feeling it. This is when i believe i showed some signs of neediness. I know i acted like a chump and the only reason I did was because of the alcohol.
 
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If she didnt want to go home with you... next her... i.e. even after a fight, your woman should go home with you, if she is YOUR woman...

the fact that you making out with another girl should already tell you, ur just NOT THAT INTO your girl man... so if she saw you, and chances are she did, she might dump your as.s or things will go downhill... dont let your EGO take over man... you were never that into her anways... otherwise you would have NEVER made out with another girl man...
 
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