"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I ****ed up

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I cant explain in great detail because I dont remember last night very well. I was completely wasted. Anyways I've been dating this girl for a while and last night I got completely drunk. I wasn't hanging out with her last night but I ended up seeing her at a club. I dont have time to describe the whole night but I know i displayed some signs of beeing needy. I also think that she saw me making out with another girl. How would you guys go about handeling this.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Which one? Not really sure if she saw me making out with another girl. I was at the other end of the bar making out with this girl and when I left i saw her sitting at the end of the bar. She was acting a little different towards me all night. I was trying to get her to go home with me but she wasn't feeling it. This is when i believe i showed some signs of neediness. I know i acted like a chump and the only reason I did was because of the alcohol.
 
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If she didnt want to go home with you... next her... i.e. even after a fight, your woman should go home with you, if she is YOUR woman...

the fact that you making out with another girl should already tell you, ur just NOT THAT INTO your girl man... so if she saw you, and chances are she did, she might dump your as.s or things will go downhill... dont let your EGO take over man... you were never that into her anways... otherwise you would have NEVER made out with another girl man...
 
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