"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I cant explain in great detail because I dont remember last night very well. I was completely wasted. Anyways I've been dating this girl for a while and last night I got completely drunk. I wasn't hanging out with her last night but I ended up seeing her at a club. I dont have time to describe the whole night but I know i displayed some signs of beeing needy. I also think that she saw me making out with another girl. How would you guys go about handeling this.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Directly or Not at All
 
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Which one? Not really sure if she saw me making out with another girl. I was at the other end of the bar making out with this girl and when I left i saw her sitting at the end of the bar. She was acting a little different towards me all night. I was trying to get her to go home with me but she wasn't feeling it. This is when i believe i showed some signs of neediness. I know i acted like a chump and the only reason I did was because of the alcohol.
 
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If she didnt want to go home with you... next her... i.e. even after a fight, your woman should go home with you, if she is YOUR woman...

the fact that you making out with another girl should already tell you, ur just NOT THAT INTO your girl man... so if she saw you, and chances are she did, she might dump your as.s or things will go downhill... dont let your EGO take over man... you were never that into her anways... otherwise you would have NEVER made out with another girl man...
 
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