"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I cant explain in great detail because I dont remember last night very well. I was completely wasted. Anyways I've been dating this girl for a while and last night I got completely drunk. I wasn't hanging out with her last night but I ended up seeing her at a club. I dont have time to describe the whole night but I know i displayed some signs of beeing needy. I also think that she saw me making out with another girl. How would you guys go about handeling this.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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Directly or Not at All
 
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Which one? Not really sure if she saw me making out with another girl. I was at the other end of the bar making out with this girl and when I left i saw her sitting at the end of the bar. She was acting a little different towards me all night. I was trying to get her to go home with me but she wasn't feeling it. This is when i believe i showed some signs of neediness. I know i acted like a chump and the only reason I did was because of the alcohol.
 
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If she didnt want to go home with you... next her... i.e. even after a fight, your woman should go home with you, if she is YOUR woman...

the fact that you making out with another girl should already tell you, ur just NOT THAT INTO your girl man... so if she saw you, and chances are she did, she might dump your as.s or things will go downhill... dont let your EGO take over man... you were never that into her anways... otherwise you would have NEVER made out with another girl man...
 
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