"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I ****ed up with the almost perfect girl

pingpongz

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Shes not returning my messages :(
ive been with lots of girls in the past but this one... wow... never met a girl like her she was a perfect 10 in my eyes.

Everything was going well until we came to the kiss, she was terrible and.. this is where i ****ed up... she was like "was that ok for you?" and i said "less tounge"

FFS

I want to kill myself :(
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Michael Chief

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pingpongz, she may have seemed "perfect" to you, but she's just a girl. And how would she be "perfect" if you didn't like the way she kissed? If she were really perfect for you kissing her would have been great.

Man up. No woman, no matter where she falls on your HB scale, should make you want to kill yourself. Let go of your attachment and move forward!

Just don't say the same thing next time a girl asks you how her kissing was. ;-)
 

Arizona iced tea

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pingpongz said:
she was like "was that ok for you?" and i said "less tounge"
unless you had a mean tone or something i cant imagine any reason this would be the cause of your problem (if there is a problem at all). how long has it been since you spoke and how do you know shes mad in the first place? did she storm off crying (that would be a good sign)? how did your get together with her end...

we need more info.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Did you say too much tounge with a smile or what? She may of got offended but, thats not really a big deal.

Girls are really insecure about themselves.. next time tell her a white lie. It's like a girl who gets dressed up for you and asks if you think she is fat. You don't say; "Yeah, you could loose some pounds."

When, was the last time you saw or talked to her? You may be over reacting too soon.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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No problem isn't solved. His problems are only just beginning.

1. He has already blown up her phone in desperation. Most new girl dates do not like a man who is desperate off the bat and clingy like that.

2. He has already broke his ballz over her by acting this way. He has lost his manhood and sold his pride down the drain. He is no longer a good catch to her but just another symp.

3. He as broken the rules of this site and sold every man here who has come to learn to be men down the drain over his so called perfect 10. All of his training and hours spent pouring over posts and trying to grow went right out the window.

4. And how did he end his weak man post? I want to kill myself. Now does that sound like a man who is in control of his life or destiny?

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To the poster. Get a clue. You know what to do. Stop blowing up her phone and let her get over it. Send that apology and let that be it if you must and I am sure you have sent 10 of them by know. I know your gonna post back up that you didn't and that's ok.

It's time to train her not have her train you. Grow your nuts back son.
 

Sandow

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Sounds like a cvnt to me. It wasn't you, she sounds like a bytch for reacting the way she did when you said that. Consider it a test, better to know now that she a cvnt rather than later. Also, this behavior is common for stuck up lil princesses like this. I'm actually kinda happy u said that now.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Desert Fox

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You want to kill yourself over a girl?

Go back and think that over one more time. Think really hard this time about what you just said.
 
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