"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I ****ed up with the almost perfect girl

pingpongz

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Shes not returning my messages :(
ive been with lots of girls in the past but this one... wow... never met a girl like her she was a perfect 10 in my eyes.

Everything was going well until we came to the kiss, she was terrible and.. this is where i ****ed up... she was like "was that ok for you?" and i said "less tounge"

FFS

I want to kill myself :(
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Michael Chief

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pingpongz, she may have seemed "perfect" to you, but she's just a girl. And how would she be "perfect" if you didn't like the way she kissed? If she were really perfect for you kissing her would have been great.

Man up. No woman, no matter where she falls on your HB scale, should make you want to kill yourself. Let go of your attachment and move forward!

Just don't say the same thing next time a girl asks you how her kissing was. ;-)
 

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pingpongz said:
she was like "was that ok for you?" and i said "less tounge"
unless you had a mean tone or something i cant imagine any reason this would be the cause of your problem (if there is a problem at all). how long has it been since you spoke and how do you know shes mad in the first place? did she storm off crying (that would be a good sign)? how did your get together with her end...

we need more info.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Did you say too much tounge with a smile or what? She may of got offended but, thats not really a big deal.

Girls are really insecure about themselves.. next time tell her a white lie. It's like a girl who gets dressed up for you and asks if you think she is fat. You don't say; "Yeah, you could loose some pounds."

When, was the last time you saw or talked to her? You may be over reacting too soon.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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No problem isn't solved. His problems are only just beginning.

1. He has already blown up her phone in desperation. Most new girl dates do not like a man who is desperate off the bat and clingy like that.

2. He has already broke his ballz over her by acting this way. He has lost his manhood and sold his pride down the drain. He is no longer a good catch to her but just another symp.

3. He as broken the rules of this site and sold every man here who has come to learn to be men down the drain over his so called perfect 10. All of his training and hours spent pouring over posts and trying to grow went right out the window.

4. And how did he end his weak man post? I want to kill myself. Now does that sound like a man who is in control of his life or destiny?

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To the poster. Get a clue. You know what to do. Stop blowing up her phone and let her get over it. Send that apology and let that be it if you must and I am sure you have sent 10 of them by know. I know your gonna post back up that you didn't and that's ok.

It's time to train her not have her train you. Grow your nuts back son.
 

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Sounds like a cvnt to me. It wasn't you, she sounds like a bytch for reacting the way she did when you said that. Consider it a test, better to know now that she a cvnt rather than later. Also, this behavior is common for stuck up lil princesses like this. I'm actually kinda happy u said that now.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You want to kill yourself over a girl?

Go back and think that over one more time. Think really hard this time about what you just said.
 
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