"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I Dumped her, Did I Judge Her Too Harshly??

Willard

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I had a girl send me abusive text messages, I kept trying to explain myself, but things just got worse, so I told her I was seeing other girls while I was seeing her, she went nuts, said she was going to sue me if she got an STD, I had to change my number.

Just ignore her unless you want to keep banging her, otherwise things will probably get worse. A mentally stable girl will not send abusive text messages, she probably has some kind of mental problems, you don't meed that in your life.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Willard said:
I had a girl send me abusive text messages, I kept trying to explain myself, but things just got worse, so I told her I was seeing other girls while I was seeing her, she went nuts, said she was going to sue me if she got an STD, I had to change my number.

Just ignore her unless you want to keep banging her, otherwise things will probably get worse. A mentally stable girl will not send abusive text messages, she probably has some kind of mental problems, you don't meed that in your life.

well i did send her a text last week... she sent me some abusive text messages, so i sent her one back... then later on i sent her another text & basicaly told her that i'm not interested in drama & petty arguments

i also said in the text, that i hope she is okay.... what did i get back? more abuse!

this is what you get for trying to be civil
 

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Willard said:
I had a girl send me abusive text messages, I kept trying to explain myself, but things just got worse, so I told her I was seeing other girls while I was seeing her, she went nuts, said she was going to sue me if she got an STD, I had to change my number.

Just ignore her unless you want to keep banging her, otherwise things will probably get worse. A mentally stable girl will not send abusive text messages, she probably has some kind of mental problems, you don't meed that in your life.

she said some pretty nasty things to me... i feel like texting her back & letting her know, what a total sl@t she is

but then again, it will just carry on back on forth...

i am some what pizzed off, as this girl was the perfrect fuk buddy... she was up for anything...

but at the same time, she is trouble, and not to be trusted
 

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damn i came to realize today, that i'm really missing the great sex with this chick...

i wouldn't mind keeping her around as a ****k buddy, but gut feeling is telling me, it's going to end bad
 
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