"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I Dumped her, Did I Judge Her Too Harshly??

Willard

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I had a girl send me abusive text messages, I kept trying to explain myself, but things just got worse, so I told her I was seeing other girls while I was seeing her, she went nuts, said she was going to sue me if she got an STD, I had to change my number.

Just ignore her unless you want to keep banging her, otherwise things will probably get worse. A mentally stable girl will not send abusive text messages, she probably has some kind of mental problems, you don't meed that in your life.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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soulforge

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Willard said:
I had a girl send me abusive text messages, I kept trying to explain myself, but things just got worse, so I told her I was seeing other girls while I was seeing her, she went nuts, said she was going to sue me if she got an STD, I had to change my number.

Just ignore her unless you want to keep banging her, otherwise things will probably get worse. A mentally stable girl will not send abusive text messages, she probably has some kind of mental problems, you don't meed that in your life.

well i did send her a text last week... she sent me some abusive text messages, so i sent her one back... then later on i sent her another text & basicaly told her that i'm not interested in drama & petty arguments

i also said in the text, that i hope she is okay.... what did i get back? more abuse!

this is what you get for trying to be civil
 

soulforge

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Willard said:
I had a girl send me abusive text messages, I kept trying to explain myself, but things just got worse, so I told her I was seeing other girls while I was seeing her, she went nuts, said she was going to sue me if she got an STD, I had to change my number.

Just ignore her unless you want to keep banging her, otherwise things will probably get worse. A mentally stable girl will not send abusive text messages, she probably has some kind of mental problems, you don't meed that in your life.

she said some pretty nasty things to me... i feel like texting her back & letting her know, what a total sl@t she is

but then again, it will just carry on back on forth...

i am some what pizzed off, as this girl was the perfrect fuk buddy... she was up for anything...

but at the same time, she is trouble, and not to be trusted
 

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damn i came to realize today, that i'm really missing the great sex with this chick...

i wouldn't mind keeping her around as a ****k buddy, but gut feeling is telling me, it's going to end bad
 
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