I don't want to mess this up

[Altruist]

Once again I turn to So Suave for some opinions. Once again, just cliff notes.

1. Interested in Girl A.
2. Girl B is interested in me for some time.
3. Girl A isn't friends with Girl B, but I am pretty sure she knows of her.
4. I like Girl A, but don't wanna mess it up by humping around.
5. What now?

Girl A: Taken, but is slowly moving towards breaking up BF. I am not playing a part in that crap, nor do I want to be a captain save a hoe.

Girl B: Single.

 

[Stéphane]

F*** Girl B while you wait that Girl A gets jealous, and starts going all over you.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

Do you like Girl B? If you do, then give her a chance. Don't sit around waiting until Girl A is available.

Does Girl A even like you "that way"?

 

[(JJ)]

oh oh!! let me help on this one. i already had something like this and f-d it up. it depends on the foundation you've laid with girl A. if she likes you and you've made it clear that you've got some interest in her, then the sh!t'll hit the fan if you go after B. trust me.

 

[(JJ)]

assuming you've got close to the same interest in both girls.

 

[Altruist]

Do you like Girl B? If you do, then give her a chance. Don't sit around waiting until Girl A is available.

Does Girl A even like you "that way"?

Girl A: Yes. And I made it clear to her that I am interested in her and she reciprocated.

Girl B: She just wants to hump like rabbits.

 

[Altruist]

assuming you've got close to the same interest in both girls.

For me at least Girl A>Girl B

Relationship wise.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

Well, she has no say until she ends it with her boyfriend and officially gets with you.

That should be done soon. What is the wait for? If it is happening soon, just wait it out.

If Girl B wants to just bang, why should anybody else know?

 

[(JJ)]

alright i think you could make a case for going either way here. if you go after girl b solely for sex you always have the arguement of "sorry girl a but you were in a relationship. i don't sit around and wait for people. i do what i want. " which will earn you respect as well as make you more of a prize. the main problem i see with going after a only is that you'll be more of a rebound kinda guy. unless you give her a while to get over it. so pro's and con's for each.

 

[tsmith2334]

I had a situation like this.

What I did: Focused completely on Girl A. I was still friendly and courteous to Girl B, just not interested.

What ended up happening was...

Girl A breaks up with her boyfriend, dates me for a while then becomes impossible to deal with before things ever got the chance to really escalate.

Girl B moves on, and I'm currently trying to rekindle things without much success. Now kicking myself over what I should have done in hindsight and wondering if I made a mistake.

 

[Altruist]

Well, she has no say until she ends it with her boyfriend and officially gets with you.

That should be done soon. What is the wait for? If it is happening soon, just wait it out.

If Girl B wants to just bang, why should anybody else know?

Being discrete would be nice. However I am in the younger age bracket, so I think more girls are more inclined to talk.

Not that I care as to whatever anyone thinks. In fact, I think Girl A can be a bit of an attention ***** at times.

 

[Altruist]

alright i think you could make a case for going either way here. if you go after girl b solely for sex you always have the arguement of "sorry girl a but you were in a relationship. i don't sit around and wait for people. i do what i want. " which will earn you respect as well as make you more of a prize. the main problem i see with going after a only is that you'll be more of a rebound kinda guy. unless you give her a while to get over it. so pro's and con's for each.

Which is why I'll make her do all the work. I'll occasionally give her the random positive reinforcement for whatever efforts she puts in to keep me around.

 

[Altruist]

I had a situation like this.

What I did: Focused completely on Girl A. I was still friendly and courteous to Girl B, just not interested.

What ended up happening was...

Girl A breaks up with her boyfriend, dates me for a while then becomes impossible to deal with before things ever got the chance to really escalate.

Girl B moves on, and I'm currently trying to rekindle things without much success. Now kicking myself over what I should have done in hindsight and wondering if I made a mistake.

I guess what I should take from this post is to just grab life by the nuts and get my FREAK ON SON!

I digress, but why should I wait around for her right?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Once again I turn to So Suave for some opinions. Once again, just cliff notes.

1. Interested in Girl A.
2. Girl B is interested in me for some time.
3. Girl A isn't friends with Girl B, but I am pretty sure she knows of her.
4. I like Girl A, but don't wanna mess it up by humping around.
5. What now?

Girl A: Taken, but is slowly moving towards breaking up BF. I am not playing a part in that crap, nor do I want to be a captain save a hoe.

Girl B: Single.

Even from this Cliff Notes version isn't the answer redily apparent?

 

[Altruist]

Even from this Cliff Notes version isn't the answer redily apparent?

It is and it isn't. Hey sometimes you need to hear it from someone else to begin to believe it....

So your advice?

 

[Gangster Of Love]

Why is Girl A moving SLOWLY towards breaking up with bf?

This should tell you what to do. You move FASTLY into the sack with Girl B.

 

[Altruist]

Why is Girl A moving SLOWLY towards breaking up with bf?

This should tell you what to do. You move FASTLY into the sack with Girl B.

Duly noted. Headed there as we speak.

As for WHY Girl A is moving slowly...cliff notes: Lives with boyfriend, probably has some financial issues moving out, they are tied together with some financial issues.

Just assumptions, tis all.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

Duly noted. Headed there as we speak.

As for WHY Girl A is moving slowly...cliff notes: Lives with boyfriend, probably has some financial issues moving out, they are tied together with some financial issues.

Just assumptions, tis all.

LoL.

Then you know what to do. Go hunt down your own dinner, not another man's. Once that bird is free, and once you have fun with Girl B, then we can discuss the situation.

 

[DonJuan11]

Once again I turn to So Suave for some opinions. Once again, just cliff notes.

1. Interested in Girl A.
2. Girl B is interested in me for some time.
3. Girl A isn't friends with Girl B, but I am pretty sure she knows of her.
4. I like Girl A, but don't wanna mess it up by humping around.
5. What now?

Girl A: Taken, but is slowly moving towards breaking up BF. I am not playing a part in that crap, nor do I want to be a captain save a hoe.

Girl B: Single.

Tell Girl A to leave her house at 6:45 pm and travel at 50 km/h to meet you
Tell Girl B to leave her house at 7:05 pm and travel at 65 km/h to meet you
That way when you sleep with them, they will never cross paths.

Why are we going after a girl with a bf anyway? Do you want him to beat the crap out of you?

 

[tsmith2334]

I guess what I should take from this post is to just grab life by the nuts and get my FREAK ON SON!

I digress, but why should I wait around for her right?

Yea man. Take everyone at face value. Don't get up in the moment with Girl A. Especially if Girl B is a catch...