Young black men who are poor often are very bold with women, where does this aggression come from and how can I mimic it? I'm a older black male and I've had my fair share of issues with confidence due to usually a lack of money ey ney.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I don't want this to come off as racist but
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Mr Wright
Master Don Juan
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1834167#post1834167"i dont want this to come off as racist but..."
lol nothing constructive has ever been said after those words have been uttered.
I think this is a thing from the streets, if you've basically grown up on the street and watched people get stabbed etc you dont give a crap what some woman thinks about you. Im pretty sure they've learnt to just take what they want or they will go without. Now i sound racist and im black too!
lol nothing constructive has ever been said after those words have been uttered.
I think this is a thing from the streets, if you've basically grown up on the street and watched people get stabbed etc you dont give a crap what some woman thinks about you. Im pretty sure they've learnt to just take what they want or they will go without. Now i sound racist and im black too!
Most of the women those type of guys go after are hootrats. Don't let them fool you into believing that they are just getting anyone they want. Most women worth getting with aren't going to have anything to do with a broke scrub.
What you should do is work on stepping your money and paper up.
Check out this message board. They have more of an urban perspective on this matter:
http://www.unitedplayersofamerica.com/
What you should do is work on stepping your money and paper up.
Check out this message board. They have more of an urban perspective on this matter:
http://www.unitedplayersofamerica.com/
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
So becuase you don't make any money like that does that mean you should hold off on meeting women till you're more financially stable? If you lose your job at 35 and move back home and your skillset is no longer in demand and most of the jobs in your field are shipped overseas are you gonna not date for years until your stable?
Don't you feel every man needs to get laid regardless of the situation?
I can't NOT think about women becuase I made errors in my past.
Don't you feel every man needs to get laid regardless of the situation?
I can't NOT think about women becuase I made errors in my past.