Young black men who are poor often are very bold with women, where does this aggression come from and how can I mimic it? I'm a older black male and I've had my fair share of issues with confidence due to usually a lack of money ey ney.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I don't want this to come off as racist but
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1834167#post1834167"i dont want this to come off as racist but..."
lol nothing constructive has ever been said after those words have been uttered.
I think this is a thing from the streets, if you've basically grown up on the street and watched people get stabbed etc you dont give a crap what some woman thinks about you. Im pretty sure they've learnt to just take what they want or they will go without. Now i sound racist and im black too!
lol nothing constructive has ever been said after those words have been uttered.
I think this is a thing from the streets, if you've basically grown up on the street and watched people get stabbed etc you dont give a crap what some woman thinks about you. Im pretty sure they've learnt to just take what they want or they will go without. Now i sound racist and im black too!
Most of the women those type of guys go after are hootrats. Don't let them fool you into believing that they are just getting anyone they want. Most women worth getting with aren't going to have anything to do with a broke scrub.
What you should do is work on stepping your money and paper up.
Check out this message board. They have more of an urban perspective on this matter:
http://www.unitedplayersofamerica.com/
What you should do is work on stepping your money and paper up.
Check out this message board. They have more of an urban perspective on this matter:
http://www.unitedplayersofamerica.com/
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
So becuase you don't make any money like that does that mean you should hold off on meeting women till you're more financially stable? If you lose your job at 35 and move back home and your skillset is no longer in demand and most of the jobs in your field are shipped overseas are you gonna not date for years until your stable?
Don't you feel every man needs to get laid regardless of the situation?
I can't NOT think about women becuase I made errors in my past.
Don't you feel every man needs to get laid regardless of the situation?
I can't NOT think about women becuase I made errors in my past.