"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I don't want this to come off as racist but

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Young black men who are poor often are very bold with women, where does this aggression come from and how can I mimic it? I'm a older black male and I've had my fair share of issues with confidence due to usually a lack of money ey ney.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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it comes from not caring, nothing to loose, and having fun.
 

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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1834167#post1834167"i dont want this to come off as racist but..."

lol nothing constructive has ever been said after those words have been uttered.

I think this is a thing from the streets, if you've basically grown up on the street and watched people get stabbed etc you dont give a crap what some woman thinks about you. Im pretty sure they've learnt to just take what they want or they will go without. Now i sound racist and im black too!
 

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Demonpenz said:
it comes from not caring, nothing to loose, and having fun.
Do you feel this is A better method when trying to meet women?
 

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Most of the women those type of guys go after are hootrats. Don't let them fool you into believing that they are just getting anyone they want. Most women worth getting with aren't going to have anything to do with a broke scrub.

What you should do is work on stepping your money and paper up.

Check out this message board. They have more of an urban perspective on this matter:
http://www.unitedplayersofamerica.com/
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Blackmm said:
Most of the women those type of guys go after are hootrats. Don't let them fool you into believing that they are just getting anyone they want. Most women worth getting with aren't going to have anything to do with a broke scrub.

What you should do is work on stepping your money and paper up.

Check out this message board. They have more of an urban perspective on this matter:
http://www.unitedplayersofamerica.com/
Thanks but regardless of income every man should get laid. I'm not really into the urbn street culture anyways.

I know my money is important and I'm working on that.
 

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So becuase you don't make any money like that does that mean you should hold off on meeting women till you're more financially stable? If you lose your job at 35 and move back home and your skillset is no longer in demand and most of the jobs in your field are shipped overseas are you gonna not date for years until your stable?

Don't you feel every man needs to get laid regardless of the situation?

I can't NOT think about women becuase I made errors in my past.
 
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