Young black men who are poor often are very bold with women, where does this aggression come from and how can I mimic it? I'm a older black male and I've had my fair share of issues with confidence due to usually a lack of money ey ney.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I don't want this to come off as racist but
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Mr Wright
Master Don Juan
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1834167#post1834167"i dont want this to come off as racist but..."
lol nothing constructive has ever been said after those words have been uttered.
I think this is a thing from the streets, if you've basically grown up on the street and watched people get stabbed etc you dont give a crap what some woman thinks about you. Im pretty sure they've learnt to just take what they want or they will go without. Now i sound racist and im black too!
lol nothing constructive has ever been said after those words have been uttered.
I think this is a thing from the streets, if you've basically grown up on the street and watched people get stabbed etc you dont give a crap what some woman thinks about you. Im pretty sure they've learnt to just take what they want or they will go without. Now i sound racist and im black too!
Most of the women those type of guys go after are hootrats. Don't let them fool you into believing that they are just getting anyone they want. Most women worth getting with aren't going to have anything to do with a broke scrub.
What you should do is work on stepping your money and paper up.
Check out this message board. They have more of an urban perspective on this matter:
http://www.unitedplayersofamerica.com/
What you should do is work on stepping your money and paper up.
Check out this message board. They have more of an urban perspective on this matter:
http://www.unitedplayersofamerica.com/
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
So becuase you don't make any money like that does that mean you should hold off on meeting women till you're more financially stable? If you lose your job at 35 and move back home and your skillset is no longer in demand and most of the jobs in your field are shipped overseas are you gonna not date for years until your stable?
Don't you feel every man needs to get laid regardless of the situation?
I can't NOT think about women becuase I made errors in my past.
Don't you feel every man needs to get laid regardless of the situation?
I can't NOT think about women becuase I made errors in my past.