"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

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I don't love her, but she loves me. Any tips?

anonymousguy

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Hey,

Here's the thing: I'm not interested in this particular woman. She isn't the right woman for me. Now, she is "waiting" for me, but I want to show her that she has to move on and stop wasting time on me.
What must I do? I want to do this as gentle as possible.

Thanks
 

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Freddy1

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Try to set her up with some other guy might help.
 

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Who cares if she thinks that. If you don't think that, well then you've done your part.

If she gets in your face about it, tell her straight up that you're not interested in her. How she deals with it is her problem.

If she stalks you afterwards, get the police.
 

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MightyMate said:
You cant do it gentle. Just tell her You are backwith Your ex. Thats most gentle You can do.
Ummm, what if a woman you were dating told you that? Would you actually consider that gentle? That she was still "in contact" with her ex while she was seeing you?

If you're not digging a woman, just tell her that you "aren't feeling the chemistry." She'll get it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

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