"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I don't love her, but she loves me. Any tips?

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anonymousguy

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Hey,

Here's the thing: I'm not interested in this particular woman. She isn't the right woman for me. Now, she is "waiting" for me, but I want to show her that she has to move on and stop wasting time on me.
What must I do? I want to do this as gentle as possible.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Freddy1

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Try to set her up with some other guy might help.
 
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Who cares if she thinks that. If you don't think that, well then you've done your part.

If she gets in your face about it, tell her straight up that you're not interested in her. How she deals with it is her problem.

If she stalks you afterwards, get the police.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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MightyMate said:
You cant do it gentle. Just tell her You are backwith Your ex. Thats most gentle You can do.
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Ummm, what if a woman you were dating told you that? Would you actually consider that gentle? That she was still "in contact" with her ex while she was seeing you?

If you're not digging a woman, just tell her that you "aren't feeling the chemistry." She'll get it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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