I have a problem. I'm only 23 but people say i look way older/mature (They say anywhere from 25 to 27). I usually approach girls at college who are younger than me and they think i'm old pervert or something. I have dark oily skin, i think that causes me to look older than what i actually am. How do i make myself look younger?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I don't look my age
- Thread starter KINGKONG
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
PuertoRican_Lover
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You are KING KONG, for crying out loud, you have bigger problems than looking youthful, when approaching women!!!
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
Exactly, if you had your other issues handled, girls would be thrilled that they are being approached by an older guy with his act together. Even if you were 30 as I am. These days I am attracting girls 5-10 years younger, and a lot easier than when I was 20, or 23.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
I was just kidding king kong gorillla dude, but ganster of love has it right.
23, 25, 27 is not old, so it can't be that. A college girl is not a baby - heck, I approach college girls - am I a pervert? You don't have to answer that, it was a rhetorical question!
23, 25, 27 is not old, so it can't be that. A college girl is not a baby - heck, I approach college girls - am I a pervert? You don't have to answer that, it was a rhetorical question!
I think I know what your talkin about, cuz I'm the same way.... I have oily skin, pretty tan too from working outside all the time.... Plus that I'm a mechanic, so I'm around grease, intense heat and alot of other crap. Plus I live on a ranch, so I'm out in the sun alot, wind blowing 30 MPH with dirt sand blasting your face... After a while my skin just looks really old, and I basicly looks like crap...... Go get some Nivea for men, the whole kit and try that out..... It's the only stuff I've found that gets rid of the acne looking scars ( it gets that bad with me, face looks all pitted )..... Makes myself look alot better, and I can tell by the looks I get from women before and after...... Ya feel a whole lot better too...... I dont look my age anyways, alot of people comment that I look like I'm around 25-26, this is when I'm all cleaned up.. Give it a try, I bet it will fix ya right up
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.