I have a problem. I'm only 23 but people say i look way older/mature (They say anywhere from 25 to 27). I usually approach girls at college who are younger than me and they think i'm old pervert or something. I have dark oily skin, i think that causes me to look older than what i actually am. How do i make myself look younger?
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I don't look my age
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PuertoRican_Lover
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You are KING KONG, for crying out loud, you have bigger problems than looking youthful, when approaching women!!!
Gangster Of Love
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Exactly, if you had your other issues handled, girls would be thrilled that they are being approached by an older guy with his act together. Even if you were 30 as I am. These days I am attracting girls 5-10 years younger, and a lot easier than when I was 20, or 23.
PuertoRican_Lover
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I was just kidding king kong gorillla dude, but ganster of love has it right.
23, 25, 27 is not old, so it can't be that. A college girl is not a baby - heck, I approach college girls - am I a pervert? You don't have to answer that, it was a rhetorical question!
23, 25, 27 is not old, so it can't be that. A college girl is not a baby - heck, I approach college girls - am I a pervert? You don't have to answer that, it was a rhetorical question!
I think I know what your talkin about, cuz I'm the same way.... I have oily skin, pretty tan too from working outside all the time.... Plus that I'm a mechanic, so I'm around grease, intense heat and alot of other crap. Plus I live on a ranch, so I'm out in the sun alot, wind blowing 30 MPH with dirt sand blasting your face... After a while my skin just looks really old, and I basicly looks like crap...... Go get some Nivea for men, the whole kit and try that out..... It's the only stuff I've found that gets rid of the acne looking scars ( it gets that bad with me, face looks all pitted )..... Makes myself look alot better, and I can tell by the looks I get from women before and after...... Ya feel a whole lot better too...... I dont look my age anyways, alot of people comment that I look like I'm around 25-26, this is when I'm all cleaned up.. Give it a try, I bet it will fix ya right up
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
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