I have a problem. I'm only 23 but people say i look way older/mature (They say anywhere from 25 to 27). I usually approach girls at college who are younger than me and they think i'm old pervert or something. I have dark oily skin, i think that causes me to look older than what i actually am. How do i make myself look younger?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I don't look my age
- Thread starter KINGKONG
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
You are KING KONG, for crying out loud, you have bigger problems than looking youthful, when approaching women!!!
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
Exactly, if you had your other issues handled, girls would be thrilled that they are being approached by an older guy with his act together. Even if you were 30 as I am. These days I am attracting girls 5-10 years younger, and a lot easier than when I was 20, or 23.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
I was just kidding king kong gorillla dude, but ganster of love has it right.
23, 25, 27 is not old, so it can't be that. A college girl is not a baby - heck, I approach college girls - am I a pervert? You don't have to answer that, it was a rhetorical question!
23, 25, 27 is not old, so it can't be that. A college girl is not a baby - heck, I approach college girls - am I a pervert? You don't have to answer that, it was a rhetorical question!
I think I know what your talkin about, cuz I'm the same way.... I have oily skin, pretty tan too from working outside all the time.... Plus that I'm a mechanic, so I'm around grease, intense heat and alot of other crap. Plus I live on a ranch, so I'm out in the sun alot, wind blowing 30 MPH with dirt sand blasting your face... After a while my skin just looks really old, and I basicly looks like crap...... Go get some Nivea for men, the whole kit and try that out..... It's the only stuff I've found that gets rid of the acne looking scars ( it gets that bad with me, face looks all pitted )..... Makes myself look alot better, and I can tell by the looks I get from women before and after...... Ya feel a whole lot better too...... I dont look my age anyways, alot of people comment that I look like I'm around 25-26, this is when I'm all cleaned up.. Give it a try, I bet it will fix ya right up
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.