"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I don't like the title of "PUA" or "Don Juan" or "player" or "ladies man"

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When those titles are thrown around and given to people (including myself) it makes it seem like success with women is this big huge thing, like some kind of title you need to get. It's like creating some kind of... organization or ranking system or something. Objectifying the whole process, making it important. It's lame.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Not to mention titles like that turn a lot of women off. Just never talk about it, keep it an unspoken thing, because you know some AFC you talk to about it will throw around what you say around him in his attempt to keep a girls attention and possible make you look bad.
 

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Vice said:
When those titles are thrown around and given to people (including myself) it makes it seem like success with women is this big huge thing, like some kind of title you need to get. It's like creating some kind of... organization or ranking system or something. Objectifying the whole process, making it important. It's lame.
I don't see what the big deal is.

I understand what you're saying,but it's not like the women you date know you're a member of this forum. Or any of your friends for that matter.

You make it seem like it's some sort of title to be put before your name.

"Pua" Vice,"Don Juan" Vice,or "Ladies man" Vice. It's not like that at all.

When I date a girl.or ask her out and she says yes,I don't say to myself,"Yeah,I'm a ladies man or I'm being a Don Juan". Those words never even enter my mind.

In fact,the only time I think of the words "Don Juan" is when I log onto the forum and see the words "Don Juan Discussion Forum".
 

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I think BEING a Don Juan is just a guy who's smooth with the ladies. NOTHING wrong with that in fact its good.

The whole "game" of being a pick up agent however is low. If you really have to create a process to just pick up and fvck women you have latent insecurities that, depending on how good of a PUA you are, are more hidden.

I'm one of those "be yourself" type of guys....if you have to resort to palm reading just to have physical contact with a girl you should take a nice hard look at yourself in the mirror.

I'm not saying all PUAs are insecure, but many have some insecurities I'll tell you that.
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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AFCs love to tell girls about what a big player scoundrel I am. It used to bother me, but hell, it probably helps me.
 

Dante420

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alphaace said:
Not to mention titles like that turn a lot of women off. Just never talk about it, keep it an unspoken thing, because you know some AFC you talk to about it will throw around what you say around him in his attempt to keep a girls attention and possible make you look bad.
yup
 
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I perfer Natural or Adventurer. That's my thing. But i don't go around saying im a natural, or playa or pimp.... well except for my signature... but hey its true haha.

Its just a verbal cue that let's people know that it means your good with girls. You forgot about "alpha" and "casanova" haha.
 

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Just call yourself a man.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Well even though this site does have elements of self improvement, it is based on the idea's and techniques for attracting more females. Now with that being said if you really learned anything from this site it's how to be a quality individual. At least that's what happened with me. I was only living half my life because I tried to avoid confrontation.
 
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