I don't like the title of "PUA" or "Don Juan" or "player" or "ladies man"

[Vice]

When those titles are thrown around and given to people (including myself) it makes it seem like success with women is this big huge thing, like some kind of title you need to get. It's like creating some kind of... organization or ranking system or something. Objectifying the whole process, making it important. It's lame.

 

[alphaace]

Not to mention titles like that turn a lot of women off. Just never talk about it, keep it an unspoken thing, because you know some AFC you talk to about it will throw around what you say around him in his attempt to keep a girls attention and possible make you look bad.

 

[Igetit!]

When those titles are thrown around and given to people (including myself) it makes it seem like success with women is this big huge thing, like some kind of title you need to get. It's like creating some kind of... organization or ranking system or something. Objectifying the whole process, making it important. It's lame.

I don't see what the big deal is.

I understand what you're saying,but it's not like the women you date know you're a member of this forum. Or any of your friends for that matter.

You make it seem like it's some sort of title to be put before your name.

"Pua" Vice,"Don Juan" Vice,or "Ladies man" Vice. It's not like that at all.

When I date a girl.or ask her out and she says yes,I don't say to myself,"Yeah,I'm a ladies man or I'm being a Don Juan". Those words never even enter my mind.

In fact,the only time I think of the words "Don Juan" is when I log onto the forum and see the words "Don Juan Discussion Forum".

 

[LostAndConfused]

I think BEING a Don Juan is just a guy who's smooth with the ladies. NOTHING wrong with that in fact its good.

The whole "game" of being a pick up agent however is low. If you really have to create a process to just pick up and fvck women you have latent insecurities that, depending on how good of a PUA you are, are more hidden.

I'm one of those "be yourself" type of guys....if you have to resort to palm reading just to have physical contact with a girl you should take a nice hard look at yourself in the mirror.

I'm not saying all PUAs are insecure, but many have some insecurities I'll tell you that.

 

[Captain]

It's just a word we can use (mainly on sites like this and such) to describe a man who is good with the ladies. It lets the reader know exactly what kind of man the writer is talking about.

 

[Unbridled_Phoenix]

AFCs love to tell girls about what a big player scoundrel I am. It used to bother me, but hell, it probably helps me.

 

[Dante420]

Not to mention titles like that turn a lot of women off. Just never talk about it, keep it an unspoken thing, because you know some AFC you talk to about it will throw around what you say around him in his attempt to keep a girls attention and possible make you look bad.

yup

 

[Daydream Engineer]

I perfer Natural or Adventurer. That's my thing. But i don't go around saying im a natural, or playa or pimp.... well except for my signature... but hey its true haha.

Its just a verbal cue that let's people know that it means your good with girls. You forgot about "alpha" and "casanova" haha.

 

[daygameguy]

Just call yourself a man.

 

[Allurre]

Yep, just call yourself 'whatever you're happy' with.

Just make sure it's something to truly be dignified and proud about 10 years down the line.

 

[trajhenkhet02]

Well even though this site does have elements of self improvement, it is based on the idea's and techniques for attracting more females. Now with that being said if you really learned anything from this site it's how to be a quality individual. At least that's what happened with me. I was only living half my life because I tried to avoid confrontation.