"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The_Reaper

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I have minor gyno - puffy nipples - and I don't like taking off my shirt. My gf of 2 weeks said earlier, "i noticed you never take off your shirt, are you hiding something". Actually, yes - it does not look good. I am not overweight, in fact I am in good shape and quite muscular, but the gyno is very annoying and can be depressing. Should I just expect her to like me anyway, and not worry too much about what she thinks? This may seem trivial to some, but it is very damaging personally.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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unorthodox

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I have gyno too..... Change it, nuff said is my way to it. But while I'm changing it, doesn't mean I should feel bad about it. Go to eBay, type into search gynocomastia or whatever you smell it right, or search by seller for gc2_compression. He sells gyno vests that look very well under shirt, and give you added boost in confidence. If you wear XL then buy L or even M, they have a tendancy to get larger with washing.

You can reduce gynocomastia, there are pills for it, but I haven't taken any so can't tell you they any good. http://www.gynexin.com/

Here is another good resource http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&sa=X&oi=spell&resnum=0&ct=result&cd=1&q=gynecomastia&spell=1


As to for how I over come it? First of all, I don't take my shirt off, don't go to the beach. It's ok to take off shirt with a chick when playing, then I don't care what she thinks, but outside, screw that.


Presently I neither have money for pills nor surgery, but a vest I can afford.



Hasn't that thing fvcked up your life from the early on?
 

The_Reaper

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It's very annoying. I cannot wait to get the surgery - I will get a loan, whatever it takes, the money is worth it but I - or anyone else - should not have to go through this ****
 

tr0ublemaker

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Gyno can be so DEPRESSING, man. I understand where you're coming from. There's a support forum that can be easily found through a search on google for "gynocomastia forums"..

Just take comfort in knowing that your condition is fixable, and you're lucky you can say that you're functioning in life without disease, terminal illness, or any other depression that plagues hospitals daily.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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