"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The_Reaper

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I have minor gyno - puffy nipples - and I don't like taking off my shirt. My gf of 2 weeks said earlier, "i noticed you never take off your shirt, are you hiding something". Actually, yes - it does not look good. I am not overweight, in fact I am in good shape and quite muscular, but the gyno is very annoying and can be depressing. Should I just expect her to like me anyway, and not worry too much about what she thinks? This may seem trivial to some, but it is very damaging personally.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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unorthodox

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I have gyno too..... Change it, nuff said is my way to it. But while I'm changing it, doesn't mean I should feel bad about it. Go to eBay, type into search gynocomastia or whatever you smell it right, or search by seller for gc2_compression. He sells gyno vests that look very well under shirt, and give you added boost in confidence. If you wear XL then buy L or even M, they have a tendancy to get larger with washing.

You can reduce gynocomastia, there are pills for it, but I haven't taken any so can't tell you they any good. http://www.gynexin.com/

Here is another good resource http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&sa=X&oi=spell&resnum=0&ct=result&cd=1&q=gynecomastia&spell=1


As to for how I over come it? First of all, I don't take my shirt off, don't go to the beach. It's ok to take off shirt with a chick when playing, then I don't care what she thinks, but outside, screw that.


Presently I neither have money for pills nor surgery, but a vest I can afford.



Hasn't that thing fvcked up your life from the early on?
 

The_Reaper

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It's very annoying. I cannot wait to get the surgery - I will get a loan, whatever it takes, the money is worth it but I - or anyone else - should not have to go through this ****
 

tr0ublemaker

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Gyno can be so DEPRESSING, man. I understand where you're coming from. There's a support forum that can be easily found through a search on google for "gynocomastia forums"..

Just take comfort in knowing that your condition is fixable, and you're lucky you can say that you're functioning in life without disease, terminal illness, or any other depression that plagues hospitals daily.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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