"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I don't like condoms, I go pull out

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Greatly dislike them. It hinders the whole experience for me. I have gone with pull out up to now and am quite good with it so no problems, but I am wondering if anyone thinks otherwise or has any experience related to this going wrong to share.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Greatly dislike them. It hinders the whole experience for me. I have gone with pull out up to now and am quite good with it so no problems, but I am wondering if anyone thinks otherwise or has any experience related to this going wrong to share.
Well depends if you're in a relationship or not. If you're not then I always wear condoms due to the fact that you don't wanna catch an STD...I'll take a clean bill of health over minor sensation problems due to a condom any day of the week.
 

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Greatly dislike them. It hinders the whole experience for me. I have gone with pull out up to now and am quite good with it so no problems, but I am wondering if anyone thinks otherwise or has any experience related to this going wrong to share.
No matter how good you are there is still sperm in pre-*** that comes here and there even before orgasm. It’s best to know a plates cycle that way you’re not banging a few days before and after ovulation. I’m serious dude, you don’t want a baby from a random plate
 

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It's relatively easy to talk them into getting on BC if they aren't already. IME it's a red flag if they are not. And the ones that are not on BC and they say oh yeah just pull out. BELIEVE me those are definitely the crazy ones! First hand experience.

At the end of the day I don't think it's worth the stress of wondering etc. I should have a lot more gray hairs than I do.

Don't get too cöcky! Next thing ya know you are pulling out a hail marry for an abortion.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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No matter how good you are there is still sperm in pre-*** that comes here and there even before orgasm. It’s best to know a plates cycle that way you’re not banging a few days before and after ovulation
Yes, many men don’t know about precvm unless they have been involved with, or know about the natural birth control / cycle method.
It’s a common misconception for many men that it all happens at time of orgasm, that line of thinking could well get you involved in 18 years or more of extra financial output…
 
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@lizardking82 You're right about at the age when using condoms became a non-negotiable to me. Once your game is tight enough and when you're able to sleep with multiple women within an hour or two of meeting them, then you have to be smart!!! I got off lucky--never got any girl pregnant and the only STD I caught was the kind that can be cleared up with a round of antibiotics. But it is 100% not worth the risk. Hormonal BC isn't the solution either, since the kind of girls you least want to raise your potential offspring are the ones who will be most lax about taking it--it also fvcks with women's mate-selection processes & hormones. IME the best (i.e. most emotionally stable) women are the ones who aren't on BC.

That said, I really like Trojan Premium Ultrathin Nonlatex. Pricey, but have to check several times a session to make sure they didn't fall off (very little loss of sensation) & every girl will tell you she's allergic to latex (lol); lambskin doesn't stop the transmission of STDs.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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No body like condoms... but I dislike disease much more.
You don't need to like: just use it. Find out a good and thin one, and that's the way to go. If you got a STD or a unwanted baby, don't blame on us. DANGER is ON.
 

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You don't need to like: just use it. Find out a good and thin one, and that's the way to go. If you got a STD or a unwanted baby, don't blame on us. DANGER is ON.
So true, so not worth iT, so not worth iT.,,
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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cant stand johnnys love barebacking, love driving fast in cars and i love a litre of GIN
 

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Greatly dislike them. It hinders the whole experience for me. I have gone with pull out up to now and am quite good with it so no problems, but I am wondering if anyone thinks otherwise or has any experience related to this going wrong to share.
Too risky brother. Risky in terms of STDs and risky in terms of getting some chick pregnant.

There are other condoms out there that you can try. Did you try those thin versions? How about Trojan Bareskin: http://www.trojanbrands.com/en/condoms/TROJAN-BARESKIN-Lubricated-Condoms

I have stuck it in raw for like 10 or 15 seconds then pulled it out. I honestly didn't feel that much of a difference than when the condom was on, but that's just me, I could be different lol.

For non-latex, these are excellent: http://www.lifestyles.com/condom/skyn-original/
 

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I am the same with condoms. It’s difficult for me to stay hard in one, let alone finish. It’s gotten worse as I have gotten older. I generally am either in a relationship with one woman or with a couple of FWBs. But my days of leaving bars with a ONS and railing her raw are overwith. My 14-year-old daughter has asked me if she has any siblings on my side. My answer to her is “none that I am aware of”. I was bad in my 30s.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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