"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I don't like condoms, I go pull out

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Greatly dislike them. It hinders the whole experience for me. I have gone with pull out up to now and am quite good with it so no problems, but I am wondering if anyone thinks otherwise or has any experience related to this going wrong to share.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Greatly dislike them. It hinders the whole experience for me. I have gone with pull out up to now and am quite good with it so no problems, but I am wondering if anyone thinks otherwise or has any experience related to this going wrong to share.
Well depends if you're in a relationship or not. If you're not then I always wear condoms due to the fact that you don't wanna catch an STD...I'll take a clean bill of health over minor sensation problems due to a condom any day of the week.
 

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Greatly dislike them. It hinders the whole experience for me. I have gone with pull out up to now and am quite good with it so no problems, but I am wondering if anyone thinks otherwise or has any experience related to this going wrong to share.
No matter how good you are there is still sperm in pre-*** that comes here and there even before orgasm. It’s best to know a plates cycle that way you’re not banging a few days before and after ovulation. I’m serious dude, you don’t want a baby from a random plate
 

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It's relatively easy to talk them into getting on BC if they aren't already. IME it's a red flag if they are not. And the ones that are not on BC and they say oh yeah just pull out. BELIEVE me those are definitely the crazy ones! First hand experience.

At the end of the day I don't think it's worth the stress of wondering etc. I should have a lot more gray hairs than I do.

Don't get too cöcky! Next thing ya know you are pulling out a hail marry for an abortion.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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No matter how good you are there is still sperm in pre-*** that comes here and there even before orgasm. It’s best to know a plates cycle that way you’re not banging a few days before and after ovulation
Yes, many men don’t know about precvm unless they have been involved with, or know about the natural birth control / cycle method.
It’s a common misconception for many men that it all happens at time of orgasm, that line of thinking could well get you involved in 18 years or more of extra financial output…
 
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@lizardking82 You're right about at the age when using condoms became a non-negotiable to me. Once your game is tight enough and when you're able to sleep with multiple women within an hour or two of meeting them, then you have to be smart!!! I got off lucky--never got any girl pregnant and the only STD I caught was the kind that can be cleared up with a round of antibiotics. But it is 100% not worth the risk. Hormonal BC isn't the solution either, since the kind of girls you least want to raise your potential offspring are the ones who will be most lax about taking it--it also fvcks with women's mate-selection processes & hormones. IME the best (i.e. most emotionally stable) women are the ones who aren't on BC.

That said, I really like Trojan Premium Ultrathin Nonlatex. Pricey, but have to check several times a session to make sure they didn't fall off (very little loss of sensation) & every girl will tell you she's allergic to latex (lol); lambskin doesn't stop the transmission of STDs.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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No body like condoms... but I dislike disease much more.
You don't need to like: just use it. Find out a good and thin one, and that's the way to go. If you got a STD or a unwanted baby, don't blame on us. DANGER is ON.
 

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You don't need to like: just use it. Find out a good and thin one, and that's the way to go. If you got a STD or a unwanted baby, don't blame on us. DANGER is ON.
So true, so not worth iT, so not worth iT.,,
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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cant stand johnnys love barebacking, love driving fast in cars and i love a litre of GIN
 

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Greatly dislike them. It hinders the whole experience for me. I have gone with pull out up to now and am quite good with it so no problems, but I am wondering if anyone thinks otherwise or has any experience related to this going wrong to share.
Too risky brother. Risky in terms of STDs and risky in terms of getting some chick pregnant.

There are other condoms out there that you can try. Did you try those thin versions? How about Trojan Bareskin: http://www.trojanbrands.com/en/condoms/TROJAN-BARESKIN-Lubricated-Condoms

I have stuck it in raw for like 10 or 15 seconds then pulled it out. I honestly didn't feel that much of a difference than when the condom was on, but that's just me, I could be different lol.

For non-latex, these are excellent: http://www.lifestyles.com/condom/skyn-original/
 

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I am the same with condoms. It’s difficult for me to stay hard in one, let alone finish. It’s gotten worse as I have gotten older. I generally am either in a relationship with one woman or with a couple of FWBs. But my days of leaving bars with a ONS and railing her raw are overwith. My 14-year-old daughter has asked me if she has any siblings on my side. My answer to her is “none that I am aware of”. I was bad in my 30s.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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