"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm friends with a girl and don't want a relationship. Neither does she.

We're not such good friends that she tells me everything, but we're not so distant that she won't hang out with me on her own.

She was at mine today and some guy that likes her kept texting her and she was asking me how to tell him that she's not interested in a relationship-she just got out of a ****ty one.

So we played the wii for a while than put a film on but my DVD player broke. Then we sat and spoke about how we weren't friends at school but we are now etc.

We went for a pizza, her mum rang her etc and we had to go and find her younger sister. Her younger sister annoyed her a great deal and I coudn't do anything even if I tried.

She comes back here on her own, we get close, I initiate kino of sorts and the like.

All night she was refferring to me as a friend btw.

Idk what to do. I don't want a relationship. Just sex will do :yes:
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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Should I ask her to hang out tomorrow and just go for it no matter what the situation?

I'm seriously out of the game.
 
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Actions speak louder than words - don't talk about it, be about it.

Her response and her actions should give you direction.
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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You could jsut be honest and tell her you'd like her as a friend with benefits,but I'm not sure how that would work. It works when you are older, but at the age she's still looking for a relationship?
 
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Get her drunk...!! :p Seriously just go for it though I think you are already in the friend zone! :/ If you don't really care about losing her as a friend 100% go for the kiss etc...
 
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I think she was playing games tonight.

I gave her a massage, I helped her do pull ups (don't ask) and I had my hand on her lap. And then walking her home I had my hand around her and she was like "no, dude. Don't" so fuck her.

Time for me to move on I thnk1
 
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