"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm friends with a girl and don't want a relationship. Neither does she.

We're not such good friends that she tells me everything, but we're not so distant that she won't hang out with me on her own.

She was at mine today and some guy that likes her kept texting her and she was asking me how to tell him that she's not interested in a relationship-she just got out of a ****ty one.

So we played the wii for a while than put a film on but my DVD player broke. Then we sat and spoke about how we weren't friends at school but we are now etc.

We went for a pizza, her mum rang her etc and we had to go and find her younger sister. Her younger sister annoyed her a great deal and I coudn't do anything even if I tried.

She comes back here on her own, we get close, I initiate kino of sorts and the like.

All night she was refferring to me as a friend btw.

Idk what to do. I don't want a relationship. Just sex will do :yes:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Should I ask her to hang out tomorrow and just go for it no matter what the situation?

I'm seriously out of the game.
 
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Actions speak louder than words - don't talk about it, be about it.

Her response and her actions should give you direction.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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You could jsut be honest and tell her you'd like her as a friend with benefits,but I'm not sure how that would work. It works when you are older, but at the age she's still looking for a relationship?
 
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Get her drunk...!! :p Seriously just go for it though I think you are already in the friend zone! :/ If you don't really care about losing her as a friend 100% go for the kiss etc...
 
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I think she was playing games tonight.

I gave her a massage, I helped her do pull ups (don't ask) and I had my hand on her lap. And then walking her home I had my hand around her and she was like "no, dude. Don't" so fuck her.

Time for me to move on I thnk1
 
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