"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Moneytalks

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I'm friends with a girl and don't want a relationship. Neither does she.

We're not such good friends that she tells me everything, but we're not so distant that she won't hang out with me on her own.

She was at mine today and some guy that likes her kept texting her and she was asking me how to tell him that she's not interested in a relationship-she just got out of a ****ty one.

So we played the wii for a while than put a film on but my DVD player broke. Then we sat and spoke about how we weren't friends at school but we are now etc.

We went for a pizza, her mum rang her etc and we had to go and find her younger sister. Her younger sister annoyed her a great deal and I coudn't do anything even if I tried.

She comes back here on her own, we get close, I initiate kino of sorts and the like.

All night she was refferring to me as a friend btw.

Idk what to do. I don't want a relationship. Just sex will do :yes:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Moneytalks

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Should I ask her to hang out tomorrow and just go for it no matter what the situation?

I'm seriously out of the game.
 
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Actions speak louder than words - don't talk about it, be about it.

Her response and her actions should give you direction.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You could jsut be honest and tell her you'd like her as a friend with benefits,but I'm not sure how that would work. It works when you are older, but at the age she's still looking for a relationship?
 
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Get her drunk...!! :p Seriously just go for it though I think you are already in the friend zone! :/ If you don't really care about losing her as a friend 100% go for the kiss etc...
 
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I think she was playing games tonight.

I gave her a massage, I helped her do pull ups (don't ask) and I had my hand on her lap. And then walking her home I had my hand around her and she was like "no, dude. Don't" so fuck her.

Time for me to move on I thnk1
 
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