"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I don't know what to do

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I'm friends with a girl and don't want a relationship. Neither does she.

We're not such good friends that she tells me everything, but we're not so distant that she won't hang out with me on her own.

She was at mine today and some guy that likes her kept texting her and she was asking me how to tell him that she's not interested in a relationship-she just got out of a ****ty one.

So we played the wii for a while than put a film on but my DVD player broke. Then we sat and spoke about how we weren't friends at school but we are now etc.

We went for a pizza, her mum rang her etc and we had to go and find her younger sister. Her younger sister annoyed her a great deal and I coudn't do anything even if I tried.

She comes back here on her own, we get close, I initiate kino of sorts and the like.

All night she was refferring to me as a friend btw.

Idk what to do. I don't want a relationship. Just sex will do :yes:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Should I ask her to hang out tomorrow and just go for it no matter what the situation?

I'm seriously out of the game.
 
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Actions speak louder than words - don't talk about it, be about it.

Her response and her actions should give you direction.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You could jsut be honest and tell her you'd like her as a friend with benefits,but I'm not sure how that would work. It works when you are older, but at the age she's still looking for a relationship?
 
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Get her drunk...!! :p Seriously just go for it though I think you are already in the friend zone! :/ If you don't really care about losing her as a friend 100% go for the kiss etc...
 
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I think she was playing games tonight.

I gave her a massage, I helped her do pull ups (don't ask) and I had my hand on her lap. And then walking her home I had my hand around her and she was like "no, dude. Don't" so fuck her.

Time for me to move on I thnk1
 
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