“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I don't know that many girls, What do I do?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
trying2fit
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uhh u should play a sport if u can
if not you can always pick up girls at parties...but those don't last long
better yet if u just pick up on a girl you used to talk to alot.
but what do u want? sex? girlfriend to brag? relationship?
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Seems there is no one thing you should do, it's a whole program. And it doesn't happen over night, so buckle up for a long ride. It's worth it.
What everybody says: work out, sign up for hobbies (even if you don't find femmes there hobbies make you interesting and help you grow), get out as much as possible. Learn a certain mindset.
There is no easy answer to this. If there was, everyone would be doing it. But there are things that will help you improve in the long run.
I'm in the Mood
Master Don Juan
Hey man, you may think that your situation sucks but the end of the High School is also the beginning of the rest of your life! You'll get a fresh start in college and you will have a much better chance and definitely more friends. Don't skip going to college!JPlaya said:I'm about to graduate high school so that ain't helping. I have like 2 girls numbers:nono: so far. I just got out of my shy shell, so I'm new. I guess I'm like a 7/10, nothing special.
As long as you're making this post here, why don't you tell us a few things about yourself and what your sticking points are. In case you don't know what sticking points are, they're the things you have the most difficulty with, you know like when you feel anxious, nervous or insecure in a certain situation, or if you're hesitant to do something.
If you give us more info about yourself, you will get much more useful advice out of the people at Sosuave.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I'm in the Mood
Master Don Juan
JPlaya, you definitely need to read this article if you haven't already. It's called Kill That Desperation! written by Pook.JPlaya said:Well since I was anti social throughout high school, I ended up not knowing any girls. I thought this one girl liked me, but idk I think I got friendzoned lol. I guess my problem is initiating flirting and talking to girls. I'm not scared, I just don't know what to say.
This article called Destroying Social Phobias written by Mr. Fingers, will also give you some great information to use to initiate more conversations, meet new people, and to overall become more social.
Here's a third article that I find very simple and helpful on the topic of conversation. It's called How to be a better conversationalist written by Poet.
If I may add a final word of advice - ONLY posting here at Sosuave (especially if you're a casual poster) will NOT cause you to improve with your social life and your abilities with women.
The magic words that will allow you to get all the women of your dreams is EFFORT, PRACTICE, and EVERYDAY.