"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I don't know that many girls, What do I do?
- Thread starter JPlaya
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
trying2fit
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uhh u should play a sport if u can
if not you can always pick up girls at parties...but those don't last long
better yet if u just pick up on a girl you used to talk to alot.
but what do u want? sex? girlfriend to brag? relationship?
Wolfgang D
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Seems there is no one thing you should do, it's a whole program. And it doesn't happen over night, so buckle up for a long ride. It's worth it.
What everybody says: work out, sign up for hobbies (even if you don't find femmes there hobbies make you interesting and help you grow), get out as much as possible. Learn a certain mindset.
There is no easy answer to this. If there was, everyone would be doing it. But there are things that will help you improve in the long run.
I'm in the Mood
Master Don Juan
Hey man, you may think that your situation sucks but the end of the High School is also the beginning of the rest of your life! You'll get a fresh start in college and you will have a much better chance and definitely more friends. Don't skip going to college!JPlaya said:I'm about to graduate high school so that ain't helping. I have like 2 girls numbers:nono: so far. I just got out of my shy shell, so I'm new. I guess I'm like a 7/10, nothing special.
As long as you're making this post here, why don't you tell us a few things about yourself and what your sticking points are. In case you don't know what sticking points are, they're the things you have the most difficulty with, you know like when you feel anxious, nervous or insecure in a certain situation, or if you're hesitant to do something.
If you give us more info about yourself, you will get much more useful advice out of the people at Sosuave.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I'm in the Mood
Master Don Juan
JPlaya, you definitely need to read this article if you haven't already. It's called Kill That Desperation! written by Pook.JPlaya said:Well since I was anti social throughout high school, I ended up not knowing any girls. I thought this one girl liked me, but idk I think I got friendzoned lol. I guess my problem is initiating flirting and talking to girls. I'm not scared, I just don't know what to say.
This article called Destroying Social Phobias written by Mr. Fingers, will also give you some great information to use to initiate more conversations, meet new people, and to overall become more social.
Here's a third article that I find very simple and helpful on the topic of conversation. It's called How to be a better conversationalist written by Poet.
If I may add a final word of advice - ONLY posting here at Sosuave (especially if you're a casual poster) will NOT cause you to improve with your social life and your abilities with women.
The magic words that will allow you to get all the women of your dreams is EFFORT, PRACTICE, and EVERYDAY.