"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I don't have a car, live in the dorms, any suggestions?

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I currently don't have a car, I'll have my car until January of next year, but I live in the College's Dorms. This shouldn't stop me from seeing women right?

What are some ideas of places where I can "take them"?

Should I tell them to meet me at my dorm building and then just walk to where ever we are going?

These are some things that come up to me that we could do:

1) Dinner at one of the dorm lounges
2) Bowling alley which is in a walking distance
3) Coffee at the student union

Do you guys have any suggestions? Any interesting date places which won't require a car? Would it be OK to tell her to pick me up? if so how could I do this?


Thanks.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Park sounds like a good idea... but there's not much to do besides talk... any suggestions on what to do?

Should I meet with her at the park or should we meet some place and walk to the park?
 

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Exactly My Point..

thats the first place You should take a girl for buliding rapport and Kinooo..

It doesnt matter where You meet...

I would personally meet at the park
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ER!C L!VE

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Indigo said:
I currently don't have a car, I'll have my car until January of next year, but I live in the College's Dorms. This shouldn't stop me from seeing women right?

What are some ideas of places where I can "take them"?

Should I tell them to meet me at my dorm building and then just walk to where ever we are going?

These are some things that come up to me that we could do:

1) Dinner at one of the dorm lounges
2) Bowling alley which is in a walking distance
3) Coffee at the student union

Do you guys have any suggestions? Any interesting date places which won't require a car? Would it be OK to tell her to pick me up? if so how could I do this? Thanks.
Dude, just get her to your dorm, pop in a movie, microwave some popcorn and you'll score. She's not at your dorm room to play jax. :cheer:
 

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DjDan said:
My favourite places are in order:

1) Dessert (Bakery store, get some cake)... - women love sugary shiet, it puts them in a good mood.. gets their minds going into pleasure and that's exactly what you want out of a woman
2) Coffee at starbucks - most women are addicted to starbucks.. all those mocha and fraps and all those damn tasty drinks get them all happy and shiet
3) Park - walk hand in hand and build kino easily..

What do all these places have in common?

There is NOTHING else to do than TALK.

Women love to talk.

As a pimp, a DJ or whatever you want to call yourself, you must sell two things.

#1) D1ck.
#2) Conversation.

D1ck + Conversation = HAPPY FEMALE
WORD
 

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At the school I went to, we had a student center with pool tables, bowling lanes and video games, that was a pretty decent spot. Or back to your place to watch a movie. I was never really a fan of walking around for the sake of walking.
 

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Take the bus, that's what I did freshman year when I couldn't have a car on campus.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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