"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I don't have a car, live in the dorms, any suggestions?

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I currently don't have a car, I'll have my car until January of next year, but I live in the College's Dorms. This shouldn't stop me from seeing women right?

What are some ideas of places where I can "take them"?

Should I tell them to meet me at my dorm building and then just walk to where ever we are going?

These are some things that come up to me that we could do:

1) Dinner at one of the dorm lounges
2) Bowling alley which is in a walking distance
3) Coffee at the student union

Do you guys have any suggestions? Any interesting date places which won't require a car? Would it be OK to tell her to pick me up? if so how could I do this?


Thanks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Park sounds like a good idea... but there's not much to do besides talk... any suggestions on what to do?

Should I meet with her at the park or should we meet some place and walk to the park?
 
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Exactly My Point..

thats the first place You should take a girl for buliding rapport and Kinooo..

It doesnt matter where You meet...

I would personally meet at the park
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Indigo said:
I currently don't have a car, I'll have my car until January of next year, but I live in the College's Dorms. This shouldn't stop me from seeing women right?

What are some ideas of places where I can "take them"?

Should I tell them to meet me at my dorm building and then just walk to where ever we are going?

These are some things that come up to me that we could do:

1) Dinner at one of the dorm lounges
2) Bowling alley which is in a walking distance
3) Coffee at the student union

Do you guys have any suggestions? Any interesting date places which won't require a car? Would it be OK to tell her to pick me up? if so how could I do this? Thanks.
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Dude, just get her to your dorm, pop in a movie, microwave some popcorn and you'll score. She's not at your dorm room to play jax. :cheer:
 
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DjDan said:
My favourite places are in order:

1) Dessert (Bakery store, get some cake)... - women love sugary shiet, it puts them in a good mood.. gets their minds going into pleasure and that's exactly what you want out of a woman
2) Coffee at starbucks - most women are addicted to starbucks.. all those mocha and fraps and all those damn tasty drinks get them all happy and shiet
3) Park - walk hand in hand and build kino easily..

What do all these places have in common?

There is NOTHING else to do than TALK.

Women love to talk.

As a pimp, a DJ or whatever you want to call yourself, you must sell two things.

#1) D1ck.
#2) Conversation.

D1ck + Conversation = HAPPY FEMALE
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At the school I went to, we had a student center with pool tables, bowling lanes and video games, that was a pretty decent spot. Or back to your place to watch a movie. I was never really a fan of walking around for the sake of walking.
 
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Take the bus, that's what I did freshman year when I couldn't have a car on campus.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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