“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I don't have a car, live in the dorms, any suggestions?

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I currently don't have a car, I'll have my car until January of next year, but I live in the College's Dorms. This shouldn't stop me from seeing women right?

What are some ideas of places where I can "take them"?

Should I tell them to meet me at my dorm building and then just walk to where ever we are going?

These are some things that come up to me that we could do:

1) Dinner at one of the dorm lounges
2) Bowling alley which is in a walking distance
3) Coffee at the student union

Do you guys have any suggestions? Any interesting date places which won't require a car? Would it be OK to tell her to pick me up? if so how could I do this?


Thanks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Park sounds like a good idea... but there's not much to do besides talk... any suggestions on what to do?

Should I meet with her at the park or should we meet some place and walk to the park?
 

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Exactly My Point..

thats the first place You should take a girl for buliding rapport and Kinooo..

It doesnt matter where You meet...

I would personally meet at the park
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Indigo said:
I currently don't have a car, I'll have my car until January of next year, but I live in the College's Dorms. This shouldn't stop me from seeing women right?

What are some ideas of places where I can "take them"?

Should I tell them to meet me at my dorm building and then just walk to where ever we are going?

These are some things that come up to me that we could do:

1) Dinner at one of the dorm lounges
2) Bowling alley which is in a walking distance
3) Coffee at the student union

Do you guys have any suggestions? Any interesting date places which won't require a car? Would it be OK to tell her to pick me up? if so how could I do this? Thanks.
Dude, just get her to your dorm, pop in a movie, microwave some popcorn and you'll score. She's not at your dorm room to play jax. :cheer:
 

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DjDan said:
My favourite places are in order:

1) Dessert (Bakery store, get some cake)... - women love sugary shiet, it puts them in a good mood.. gets their minds going into pleasure and that's exactly what you want out of a woman
2) Coffee at starbucks - most women are addicted to starbucks.. all those mocha and fraps and all those damn tasty drinks get them all happy and shiet
3) Park - walk hand in hand and build kino easily..

What do all these places have in common?

There is NOTHING else to do than TALK.

Women love to talk.

As a pimp, a DJ or whatever you want to call yourself, you must sell two things.

#1) D1ck.
#2) Conversation.

D1ck + Conversation = HAPPY FEMALE
WORD
 

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At the school I went to, we had a student center with pool tables, bowling lanes and video games, that was a pretty decent spot. Or back to your place to watch a movie. I was never really a fan of walking around for the sake of walking.
 

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Take the bus, that's what I did freshman year when I couldn't have a car on campus.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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